你们好，
这是我第一张blogger，为什么我会选择写这张文稿呢？那是因为我最近和我要好朋友发生了误会，在我无法如何开导自己之下所以选择写这张文稿来跟你们分享，今天没什么心情做善事的东西，因为我以经播出我的两个小时在金马仑住宿里开了手提电脑写了这封文稿！希望你们慢慢读吧！
希望你们读了之后可以给我一点意见．谢谢！！
我和她是去年高一认识的，我们也是个自从别间学校一起考上同一间学俯，也刚好的被分配到同一班．她是一个活泼又开朗的女孩子．她灿烂的笑容也迷倒了不少男孩子吧她和蔼可亲．她也是个聪明能干的女孩子．起初，我们还不是很认识对方，也只好在班里自我介绍才认识的．我在那间学俯里人是很多朋友，当然她也不例外．
日子一天一天的过（大概两个月），我也有她的电话了．刚开始的时候，我们只是传简讯如果遇到重要的事想告知对方．日子久了，我们也渐渐的传简讯给比此一天有几十封吧有事没事聊聊电话，跟朋友出去看电影，我还记的每次我都是看到睡着了．哈哈～这样的生活过久了我也开始淡了，不过跟她聊天讲心事的日子真的很开心，每天看到她那灿烂的笑容让人不会有烦恼的心情．有一天，刚好的我简讯她被她的朋友在她电话里瞧见了．
第二天早上，学俯里就有同学自造绯闻说＂我喜欢她＂那可不是简直是太过份和笑话吗？？让我问在前的你你是否会有同样的想法吗？？这件事也传到让别班同学也知到了！！这件事传开了之后当我们见到对方的时候也会有点尴尬，我们在班的时候也会让班上的同学道乱或自作緋闻． 也因此这样我们之间的友情也有很大的变化．我们也不会像以前那样有事没事聊聊天，数次也开始减少了，在学俯见面的时候也没什么两句．只是有时通电话上网而已．我怕如果在学俯里跟她太多接触回让人说坏话．
我还记得有一次我学俯里的同学向她告白可是他被拒绝了．我也有安慰他．不过我不知道到底发生了什么事，当緋闻传了之后，我在我朋友那里得知那位同学蛮争对我，我不知该如和做是好？？只好照常上课咯！见到面偶尔也会打打招呼吧！
今年还是以往年一样吧！有时还会在电话或网上聊聊天，可是在学俯讲话的机会就少了以免同学再次乱作緋闻．接近考试的时候有时会互相去鼓励对方．她一向来成绩也很好，很不幸的是我们俩还拿过两次同名次，结果又让班上同学误会我们俩，最惨的是让他们说我们是什么＜天生一对＞什么＜命中注定＞．那些人真的是太卑鄙了吧！怎么可能呢？？我们跟本都合不来我喜欢惹她斗她有时还会惹她生气呢！更何况我们还是同＂姓＂！！！我可没那种命和资格好不好！！英雄和美人那才是一伙的！！
日子一天一天过了，我也习惯了被同学搞緋闻但是偶尔还是会被他们Ｚ吧！不过我还是不去理会他们！希望能如次而解决吧！可是事情不是我想像中的那样，还是时常被同学误会！ 我以经好累好累无法再向他们解释了，就当耳边风吧！也因为我太关心她吧也因此让她和其她人误会吧！不过我也很关心我每个身边的朋友啊！
她的生日来临了，因为我还记得她说过她会很开心我往年也曾经跟她说过会在她明年生日那天给她一个惊喜．在她生日的三个星期前和我朋友一起计划一个很完美惊喜的生日派对给她．我们打算在沙滩上来个烧烤派对，还有我们还打算点蜡烛 ＨＡＰＰＹ ＢＩＲＴＨＤＡＹ 在沙滩上给她以外的惊喜．由于她的生日靠近会考，大多数的同学都无法出席，不过我们还是尽量的去邀请同学，真的是好天不负有心人哦还有少数同学答应会出席当晚的派对．．．．我就告知她很要好的两位朋友希望她们可以跟我们打通和跟她们说派对的事，并切不让吩咐她们俩别让她知道此事，就要她们俩约她到派对的地点． 一切都进行得很顺利．生日蛋糕也定了！
谁知道＂一场惊喜却换来一场祸＂在她生日的前几天她的朋友就跟我说她们已经告诉她那派对的事，她们说她不要那样的派对因为她会尴尬如果让人知到那派对是我计划，她说普遍的派对就好了不要蜡烛了，听了之后我知道计划已被破坏虽然我有一点点的伤心因为不能再给她惊喜了我守不了我之前的诺言！听她们俩这么说我就当然答应咯因为是她要的嘛！当然普遍较好吧因为怕其他人会误会吧！ 她的两个朋友为人好好哦，对朋友也特别好，还很喜欢帮助人．我以经把她们当做是很要好朋友的看待了．．．
可能我的计划会让她有点误会了吧也许想得太复杂了吧！这一切都是我的错因为我没有事先跟她讲清楚这个计划也因此让她误会我了！在她生日前三天她的朋友传了通简讯给我，我刚好 out station, 她的朋友讯息里:how many ppl going the party ??
我答:10 plus . 她的朋友回答: if u dont tell we dont want go ! 我答: i am out station got anything we discuss when i m back ok ? sure got ppl go when u go there u will know who are they !! 她的朋友回答:cannot i no want her to look stupid der..it's her birthday. she said she will be happy if celebrate with us. N got ppl told me they are not going bcoz u are the one who organise party. OKAY?? SHIT.. 我答: We discuss when i m back ok now i not free to discuss about such things> out station !! i dun know.她的朋友答: i dun care bout the party. i'm nt involve. Sorry. no more msg me bout tis. i headache. waste my credit msg u oso. bye.
我看了之后真的有点难过因为一切都准备就绪现在叫我cancel the party 唯免太难接受了吧还还要去cancel the plan!! haiz....
没办法可能她误会了我的用意吧! 只好在外地乖乖的发简迅给我那些已邀好的朋友跟他们道歉!!
打电话给她又不听我的解释......我也不知该如何是好??
我真的那么过份吗? 我那么做真的是让她误会了!
我做错了.不该在她不同意下和朋友计划那些"生日派对"!
我只是想给她一份惊喜却换来一场难过.........!!
没法啦该面对的是绝对要面对的,该来的我终究都躲不掉!!
我不可能因为这件事而怪其他人,祸是我闯的我只好自己承担吧!!!
也不可能因为这件事而伤心难过,因为"我就是我"她是我同班同学每天都会见面.我不会因此而和她翻脸,因为我做的不是什么伤天害理的事．品良心吧!!~~
在这件事里我学会很多东西,我学会分黑和白,我知到谁对我好谁对我不好!
原来不是每个朋友都可以相信的~
原来朋友只是拿来利用而已!!
只有真心好朋友是在你最难过时挺身而出帮你的那个才是可以相信的朋友!!
谢谢她们让我学会那么多做人的道理!!!
~~也谢谢在前的你们播出时间读我的文稿!
~别忘了留点个人意见或发表给我哦............
下星期见咯!! 拜拜!
68 条评论:
what i can say is, if u really like the girl just go ahead..
if u don't, keep a distance... anything happen will just spoil the friendships u build before....
You should ask the girl come out face to face tell her the fact n all the things you plan,you shouldn't avoid her. So remeber don't treat her so good if not she will missunderstand you again..
what decision that you make i also will support you...
go ahead n don't bother...
Actually i think u really like the girl which i talk with u in msn.
Just take it as a experience, because in our life sure will face any problem. Friendship is one of the problem, take it as a tutorial. After this u will know which friend that u must care them more and which friend that just a part of our life.
Just take it easy!! U will know more when u come out to work.. then u will know friendship...
erm..xo pity laa u..i knw u treat evy1 oso vy gud 1..xo u dunid care ppl say wat la..jz did watever u lyk..muz b hapi ya =]
LOLxxx...
actualy i fil dat u like dat gal gal loo..
abo 4 wad u did dat much thg 4 her wor..
although u owaz treat all ppl gud bt hoo..
4 gals leh...
if u did dat to dem dey wil misunderstood de ma...
if jz FRENSHIP(v gals)den muz keep sum distance de...
othwise many pbl wil occur...
actualy if im u i wont b dat mind wad ppl tok bout me v guys...
cz dats my fr33dom to mix n care my frens..
i no nit permission frm oths...
so...
no matter u like d gal or nt...
u knw it urself can d....
no nit to show it out or hide d fact purposely...
if LIKE...
den jz go ahead...
if DISLIKE...
den better stay far away..
dats ALL...
U DECIDE URSELF...
n...
let d destiny decide 4 u...
jz tk care...
n dont too blieve on ots...
=)
when you plan the party for that girl why we dunno such thing?h'ng next time we wont invite you when we go out with your guys friends Lol..wa~~tis girl are so lucky i know you always treat us so good de.. we wont miss-understand you... i think so far she is the one who miss-understand you only lol.....
you have your own way to do so... so dont mind others people how to think about you..juz what you want to do n go ahead.... aik next time come to visit us no need buy too much things for us...
Bluezzz
haixo... girls are always so complicated d..so giv Her time to be calm down then only try explain to her lo``
i also treat my guys friends very good sometime closer with them lo.. bt everything same as usual...~khei go~ go!go!go!
Your blog look so sad lo...must be cheer up call me out when you need my help....
~bb brother how are you?
~why last week came to singapore just stay two days only.
~why not stay a little longer?
lets us treat you eat...
~your blog so touching lozz..
~waste your effort to do so much things for her !
~If u dont like her then stay far away from her lolz..
~For bb brother nothing is impossible lol...
~keep it up.. but do not forget us..
wa so many how to reply each of u?? swt for singapore friends .last week i went there coz my k.sis ask me go visit old folks home at jb coz tht time flood ma.so sorry lo. promise nex time i sure will go to visit ur ok..
malaysia d friends... thx fro ur support hope ur understand my condition lo hehe... do more charity work bring good deed for myself lol. this kind of things i not dare to think so much la...
mayb ur r rite..let the time to settle everything...
At here wish all of u happy go lucky stay pretty/handsome always.
-ai li ke-
you treat her so good for what?
see i told u already don't treat
ppl so good or else the girls will missunderstand you d...
I will support u no matter what decision you make... !!
good luck.....
...........
actually, if a girl treats u that way, i think u have know wat to do.
there not only that girl in this world. there are so many out there.
if u two really a good friend. u have know each other well. even this small misunderstanding can be avoid.
anyway, just follow your feeling.
if u like the girl, go ahead n tell her.
if not just 4got bout it. she treats u like that, what the point !?
hey bb brother i think you should avoid this kind of gal better la..... you treat her so good but she still do that to you is not worth la...but some >gal they will missunderstand easily so treat them as usual can aldy
You ?????????????
Her ?????????????
What the ????????
Forget about her ok ????????
You still have us @@@@@@
We will ever support you .....
Go with your own decision )))))))
We will beside you and help you ---
Come on you are so kindness '''''''
Just take experience from that.....
She don't know what you think >>>>
But i understand you /////////
Cheer up ==============
人是为自己而活 不是为别人而活的捏
所以不必太在意 这样只会让自己难过
跟着感觉走吧 时间会冲淡一切
对待每个人的方式都是不同的 慢慢来吧
gogogo i will support u also !!
dont bother other ppl how to think about you !
Wei~~ who is she ??
Izit her that i always mention infront of you de??
you like her?
If you like her i will support you lo! Jia you
If not her then you have to tell me who is she lo ??? hehe
I think u your blog is good. I also like u, say by some people. They also say me and she is lover. Athought i am a girl because my school all is girl. So don't bother them just be yourself, and try your best to explain your hard work .
+oil !!
wao so touch lo your blog who is tht gal so lucky ?
make sure next time dont treat me so good or else i also will same like her missunderstand you...lolz jok jok la. i understand you...you have your own reason... like that is normal la...keep on going with your plan you will be success in future>>
Hei..so miss you la when you want come to find me??
Thtz means her frien betray you tell her all the plan lo?too bad
Wah u are so goodz last year wht u said gv her surprise still can rememberzz not bad !!she understand u so u hav to explain to her loh****
For me i sure will very touching loh..
i will support you too !! keep it up...
~Hui
haiya... i also same like you always make ppl miss understand me but i never bother how people look at me bcoz as you said i'm who i'm just do whatevar you want,, you shouldn't bother others ppl how to think go with your plan..
u wont so easily gv up your plan de right....?
you must try hard then only is good bb brother ma...
why the yours daily musical no out ad? whts going on ?
so?
giv up her lo ....
forget about her lo...
dont talk to her lo ....
but i think is her friens wrong la
they ar not suppose to tell her !!
can you give me tis gal hp number??
anyway when will you wirte second blog?
Both of u like couple quarrel lo.hehe from wht i think lo
Wasted la if both of you not couple\
wa- so many fans support you lo..
seriously you like her or not?
bb if want chase a person must work harder la ... touch her heart... then only can last long so must quarrel a bit only like couple ma...
well, i will encourage bb do whatevar u like and b happy always is the most importan
比比 i support you.. your daily musical really very nice lo!
when want to write and post again ??
me and friends still wait for your next daily musical...
no mater how you are still our bb.
So cannot bcoz of this matter sad lo...as i know bb is a very strong emotional person so we will aid n support youuuu////
I m just a outsider so i not really know wht u think~~
But is very enjoy with you during the charity courses at cameron highland.
Hope u same like me enjoy too.
I know with you together i m very happy...
Thanks to give me such happy days~~
So when u are free must come to visit me..i will bring u visit around my hometown>>although i m not recognise u long but u gv me feeling is you really a good n kind person and nice guys!!
Hope you enjoy ur holidays with joy and happiness ...bluezzzz
erm...i think u fall in love adi la...juz admit it...dun find excuse anymore...do wat u should do,not thg is perfect,ok?it's no prob wif yr plan,is yr fren cant keep secret well...dun blame yrself...n dun think it anymore...
So touching lo your blog ""
in my opinion i think the gal shouldnt treat u like that lo?
i not recognise you so i dunno what is the real condition... but u dont blame yourself because the problem is her friends cannot keep a secret so next time any secret things dont tell them lo...
But from wht i think is the gal are very blessedness....
as a result i think u should sad because of tis matter
you still can do watever you like and dont give up with your plan easily....
Tis blog hear like love story,i think is good for you come out with a explanation, in my i m of the opinion that tis friendship still can last long,but you dont like the tis gal are so wasted for u,because both of u seems like couple lolz,dont trust her friends anymore,from what i think all problem is from her friends there so you must "WATCHFUL" when takl with her friens.
Mind to friend with me n can you tell me your msn add?
Thx 4 support bb here....sori derrick i cant gv u her hp number coz thts her privacy...
why everyone think that i like her?? no k.. bb not dare to think such things k...haha
oh ya! i forget to tell ur my daily musical no out already...coz my friends some of them are busy with their own stuff...so nobody want to write it n i busy with my sch stuff,so we decide stop ady..so thank you for always support musical daily,i promise u all when we hv free time we sure will restart daily musical n bring ur happiness !! ~~~~~~~
i think you fall in love with her already just you dunno only le...
So only u will blur blur de to make so many things for her....
can consider to chase her lolzzzzz
hey guy make a good decision and dont be sad must happy always
girls are not easily to handle if you not really understand them
so have to explain to her !!!bye bye
If You like her go chase her.
Go tell her "I love U" wow~~~
this suppose a love story not friends story lol!!
Both of you like small couple quarrel lol...
I think is better for you to have her'''''
overall~ I will encourage You chase her >>
If you wan birthday surprise i will help you to think~~
How about birthday present ??
i think you fall in love towards her aldy la,holidays go find her lo!
If you like her fastezz faster confess with her la,if others people make a mov 1st then you will have to suffer aldy and regretful in your whole liv...
Love one person is nothing wrong!!
The wrong is wrong at how you treat the person that you like"
i think you plan is really good..
i m just a outsider i think that is great for you to coninue one day both of u will fall in love! Nex time my girl friend birthday i also want2 gv her some special surprise!! your blog is good@
bb!! that gal too over ad,
she cannot act like that...
some say u shit scold u...
this gal love her much also no use d...
you seem like so lov her lol@
outside there stil hav a lot of gals ??
She treat you like tht you stil can bear in mind...change target la~~
加油加油哦！你一定要追到她哦！我永远支持你！
～惠～
I think you should confess if you like her~~
If dont stand far away from her !
Or maybe she dont know what you think or understand you only will misunderstand you... so go ahead dont gv up....
U too over already,,,,
and u should not treat her so good if just as a normal friend...
So i disagree with your plan..
if i m girl i also will misunderstand you. but anyway from what i see is you are a good guys....
Don b sad lo! why she so esy missunderstand you d? i hope time will prove everything...
you treat me so good if i will missunderstand then since last time i had aldy missunderstand you aldy lol but i won't lo..hahazz go ahead with you plan la..jia you
hello, i m xiao fern!! i think u had fall in love towards her ad,if both of you together is happy so do not stop that just go ahead everything will be fine, please do not bother how others people think about your...juz b yourself surname same is does not a big deal b coz nothing is impossible and love will bring you happiness
trust me you can do it... go ahead n good luck !
你好，加油哦．＂爱＂是要勇敢表达出来的所以我觉得你为她所做的一切都没错．．．把握机会哦
祝你顺利咯＠
BB !! GaMbaTeH ooo! she angry U?
starting friendship are like taht d la.. then quarrel a bit only can last long lolz:P
U seem like very nice guy...
One-day she sure will understand U and what U think1
Take good care~~
哈哈！
你们好甜蜜哦！
不要灰心要多加油哦！
i will support you add oil oil lolz....
Love is colour blind !!
Not your fault is her friends can't keep the secret !!
hello! bb brother long time no chat how are you?
wa~ suddently from written daily musical change to blogger aldy?? lol
tis blog not bad i think u can write more btter than tis....
hope u can do it in other way...
This story i will stand at the boy side lo bcoz that is normal for the boy to treat the girl good....
lol
Pls next time use english la~~
bie !
I trust you...
the gal should no treat u so bad!
i will encourage u forget her ...
good luck ....
+++++++++++ oil la
if you !!
like her go confess or tell her lo!
If not do not so clse with her !
~1st
No like becoz i duno wht is going on~~
~2nd
I wan to say thank you to everyone who always support bb...i m seriouly very touch since still get so many ppl support !!
~3rd
I m very understand what i want to attain now !!
~4th
Never say never do ,when u say u must do !!!
~5th
mayb few of you are rite,how ppl treat @ look @ think about me i must not bother them.
~6th
juz be myself,everyday happy go lucky, my life sure will fill with happiness !!
~7th
do more charity bring myself good deed n b happi always !!
~8th
i have my own decision~~~~~
Thank you n good bie!
so romantic party who no want ?
hehez,mayb the gal over thinking already so only will do like that ...
so you don't so easily to gv up n sad...try your best k
Qi Qi at here support you okay ?? lolz.>>Jia You
u treat her so good lol how come she treat you like thts ?
Too bad la !
%%%%%%%
B yourself k !
BB +oil oooooo
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I will aid you if you need it !!
well i only can gv u my advise is dont treat her so good !
If u really like her pls go ahead
thts nothing wrong if you like her then treat her good !!
____________________
add more oil lolz!
My dear friends...
How are you recently? Still work there ? oh--- i read your blog aldy... after i read i felt tht so touch lol! Why u wanna gav her surprise? too bad la her refused to join tht party still scold you "shit" (((((
As your friend i sure will encourage you forget her lo if you can do it "" so i hope tht forget her u might be more happy than last time loh...:)
If you fall in love towards her then you have to think twice before you confess...
No matter wat decision you make i'm sure i will support you...
Hey..don't forget to visit us always... we are so missss you k...
Mui Mui~
Hey bb buddy you are so free to wrote blog e?
why stop the diary musical already ? That is more efficient than this blog wakakaka~~
she not treat you as her's friend so forget about her.
i intro better than her for you.. wakakaka~~~ next holidays when you are free come to singapore remember to go NUS visit us okay.
:P
She treat you so bad why you still want to friends with her ??
You suppose to be yourself dont listen to others!!
......... pls dont listen to them actually u are not OkAY. Good guys never bother what the rumours is....
I will support u always !! :P
Bee Kuan
hello<
nice to meet U<
i am Su Lyn!
Mind to introduce yourself further ?
Your blog really touch!
My comment is : jus continue with what tou want and accomplish it !
Don't get influence by others.
Don't be too sad !
她把你的好心当狗吠，难道你还那么顶她吗？
Say you stupid but you are not. Say you clever but sometime need to consider.
I hope you really understand what i means....
Come on be yourself our bb brother wont so easily get sad !!
Hey YOU!!
If you are so easily to giv up better don't be my brother >>>
Just take it as normal !!!
Dont care what ppl say >>>
Continue with your happy life !!
Anything you need help you can call me !!
Wait you wakeup your mind only call u out if not u dont think we will ask you out@@@
U are not my brother if you no have any confidence !!!
Take care !!
Forget her better !!!
Walao d. why will like that d?? Tell me in friendster msg for further information i will giv you my suggestion and opinion !!Take good care of your health !!
Dont bother the bitch la !
i not really know her right ? so mind to tell me ??
hello!my friends pls dont scold people like that la !! that words is so over ady la !! She is normal girl so remember dont scold ppl like that because not good !!! Paiseh#
the world not only her, there are so many girls are waiting outside there!! So faster faster forget about her lol!! I m sure you will find a girl friend who are better than her 100times one day!! If dont like her then kick her off la !! treat her so good but she treat u like that then that is no point to treat her good anymore because she don't know how to appreciate people !!
Sweat la you @
Mayb she don't knowyou always treat people so good d! so misunderstand lo! As long as you treat us good can already lo !! haha :P
Miss you ooo~~
We are proud of you !!
you are good guy so don't worry no have gals like you lol !!!
Let the time provezzz to you lol!!
Must be happy always !!!
wa~ u are so romantic guy! hehe !!
Is good to have such relationship with your friends!
they don't understand you so will act like that ;
Be patient lo let the god help you !!
Pls gv me your new handphone number is hard to contact you la !!
Stupid girls ~~
how lo?
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